Q 1: I married a virtuous woman four years ago. In our first week of marriage, a disagreement took place between me and her family, but she had nothing to do with it. I made an oath in the exact following words, "The food that your family brings is only yours; I will not eat from it.
I swear that if I eat anything from it before reconciliation with them, you will be as forbidden to me as my mother and my sister."
This food was mostly (Part No. 23; Page No. 97) fruits and other kinds of food. She paid attention to this point, and was careful not to give me any kind of food that her family brought. Now, after having reconciled with her family, please advise concerning this oath, given that my intention at that time was leaving my wife if she gives me any of the food brought by her family without my knowledge. Until now, she has taken care not to do so. I tried to reconcile with her family due to her fear that she might forget and give me any of the food brought by her family. Please advise me concerning this, may Allah inform you.
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If the situation is as you have mentioned, it will be permissible for you to eat from the food brought by your wife's family after reconciliation.May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.